The Truth about Female Sexuality that no Feminist will Admit

On a daily basis, we hear feminists bitch, whine, moan, and complain about rape culture. Rape culture is the idea that society, in general, dismisses sexual assault as "no big deal." Feminists are pretty adamant that rape culture exists in regards to women in the West, despite the fact that there is ZERO evidence supporting its existence. (At least not in regards to women, but that will be another post.)

And one of the contributing factors to rape culture, feminists say, is the idea of toxic masculinity. When feminists talk about toxic masculinity, they typically say that several traits men exhibit: aggression, assertiveness, strength, and stoicism are all toxic traits that both hinder men and hurt women. Feminists think, because men have these "toxic" traits that they feel entitled to women's bodies and see women as nothing more than sex objects.

Meanwhile, the opinion of the woman herself is ignored. What does she like? Does she enjoy an aggressive man? An assertive one? Instead of asking women what they like, feminists have decided FOR us what we should like by pushing this idea I like to call "consistent consent."

Now what is consistent consent? It is the idea that, during a sexual encounter, a man must ask permission before EVERY step he takes. Before he kisses you, before he unbuttons your shirt, before he takes off your pants, before EVERYTHING. Feminists are convinced that THIS is what women want from men.

But, if my husband ever tried consistent consent, I think it would go a little something like this:

"Can I take off your shirt?"

"Sure babe."

"Can I touch your left breast?"

"Ummmm, yeah?"

"Can I go down on you?"

"YES!"

"Can I put my penis in your-"

"JUST SHUT UP AND FUCK ME ALREADY!!!!!"

Because, despite what feminists would have you believe, women, on average, LIKE an assertive man. One of the most common sexual fantasies among women, even if many of them won't admit it, is the rape fantasy; the idea of a man becoming so overcome with desire for you that he takes you against your will, but, part-way through, you realize you wanted it all along and submit to him.

I have those fantasies. I would venture to guess that most women who read this have those fantasies in one form or another. My fantasies usually involve chains, whips, ropes, gags, and harnesses, but that's a whole different topic for a different blog post.

The point is, you can't have a rape fantasy unless the man you are fantasizing about is assertive. If he asked permission before he tore your shirt off, it wouldn't exactly work would it? The whole idea revolves around him being bold enough to take you against your will.

So if this fantasy is as common as it seems to be, why then do feminists keep pushing the idea that masculine traits like assertiveness are "toxic?"

I think it, partially, comes down to self-esteem. Feminists, on average, seem to be people who have VERY low self-esteem. They don't think they are good enough to get an assertive man, so they have to push the idea that assertiveness is bad so men will lower themselves to the level of the afformentioned feminist.

In some cases, it has worked. I read about a man who felt so guilty about being born male that he literally punished himself for it. Honestly, I have never seen the level of self-loathing that came from that man. It was really very sad.

But then there's also the added benefits of making men look like the villains all the time. If men are always the villains, women can never be held responsible for anything they do with or to a man. Woman has sex with a man and decides it's rape later? Perfectly fine because men are toxic individuals who need to be "taught not to rape" so he would probably have raped someone anyway. Woman wants to rape a man? Hunky dory because men cannot be raped.

So, essentially, it all comes down to control. Control the narrative surrounding female sexuality and you control men. Make female sexuality look like this delicate thing that could shatter at any moment and you can make any man look like a criminal and any woman look like a victim.

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